Wednesday, December 30, 2009

things i love







There are many things I have loved about are time away from home... perhaps most significantly experiencing time differently...




time for good books, alone and with the kids... time for Frisbee and lying in the grass. I have loved having, and taking, the time to lean into home learning with Dana and the kids. We spend most mornings reading, or being read to, hunched over math books, shoulder to shoulder with Noah or Anna, learning (or attempting to recall) what antonyms are, or why 'ck' and not 'k' happens at the end of a spelling word with Mollie.




I love watching our kids grow, stretch and learn... yes, about this place and it's people, but also about whatever is in front of them in the moment... gecko's caught in the early morning, the joy of tea , sunlight and a good book, reading a social cue...




I am so thankful for this time, because of the experience of where we are, but more so for the space to be slow, to watch our kids grow in real time... to see Mollie's two front teeth reach further out daily.




Though we are half way through our time, I want to resist marking the weeks and days we have left, counting time until 'time' returns to normal. Rather, I would want to continue in the practice of being more aware... engaging our kids, other people, books, shade cooled grass, and learning to live in the present... not just vacation there.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Weeding and Walking















-written by Noah








Last Tuesday we went farming. It took two hours to get there, plus we had to pick up two people on the way there. when we were just about half way there, dad said I could listen to the Ipod. I listened to 'Shilo' all the way there. When we got to the house, a man named Solomon came out. Me and dad got out of the Cruiser and dad and Solomon talked for a long time. Then he toured us around his plants and vegetables. Then we got to work. We started to weed the vegetables, then they called us in for tea. While I was gardening I felt so exhausted and tired. I didn't want to stop because dad and Solomon were still working. After tea we came out and worked for an hour and a half. For lunch we had rice and potatoes. Then we went to catch the goats. We walked for a long time. When we were walking I felt miserable because I couldn't catch a goat. I tried three times! But on the last time I caught one! I was so excited.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas!










Well, we are back from a truly Kenyan Christmas celebration. We were invited along with my parents to celebrate Christmas with a large extended Kukuyu family just west of Nairobi. So after enjoying gift opening with the kids in the morning, we left wondering just what this day would hold for us. Was I apprehensive? I will leave you guessing. :)




There really was no need to worry. The family was thrilled we came (though they had been hoping we would be there earlier to help slaughter the goat... most of us were happy we missed that). We were given a tour of their gorgeous, lush, green farmed countryside (all on a quite a steep hill), tasted sheep liver, shook hands with many people and just enjoyed visiting before dinner. We were seated on wooden benches and told how dinner would be served. We have not gotten used to the amount of food normally heaped on plates, though they are a fit group of people. We served ourselves sheep stew, lentils and carrots, rice, chapatis, cabbage, and traditional African mashed potatoes with maize and greens (like pumpkin leaves) but didn't get close to the amount they thought we should have. Our kids going back for seconds on chapatis made up for the initial surprise though.




After dinner, we were back on the benches (congregation style) and proceeded to hear a couple of sermons, prayers, songs and introductions. Our host brought everyone up (around 60 people were there) by family. Our introductions were a bit more simple as dad has only one wife :)




In closing we had sodas (the Coke for which I was glad as I was about to be introduced to African sausage as a parting gift).




As we shared with them, we felt privileged to share this Christmas with some new friends.




We hope you also shared your day with friends.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Mollie's Adventure




-written by Mollie (translated my her mom)
we went to a kenya vilag . 3 kenya boys stol a medl oet uv a chruck. my mom sur the 3 kenya boys thwo the medl oet uv the chruck. i was sckerd. the gui asckct sum uthr boys to help him get the medl. tha did. i was hape to get hom that day.
(We went to a Kenya village. Three Kenyan boys stole metal out of a truck. My mom saw the three Kenyan boys throw the metal out of the truck. I was scared. The guy asked some other boys to help him get the metal. They did. I was happy to get home that day.)


An African Wedding




-written by Anna


This week I am writing about an african wedding. To drive there it took two in a half hours!I can't believe I made it! All I did is read Where's Waldo? Eat. And listen to Adventures in Odessy. When we got there we didn't go to church right away...we went to another person's house. The house looked like a little cottege. The bathroom was an out house. After we had the break at the house it was time to go to the wedding! It took three hours! After the wedding we were forced to go to the reception. I had rice and chapates!On the way home all of us had to go to the bathroom in the bushes. A giraffe was right there watching us!


I loved that day.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Extraordinary people









Yesterday we have had the opportunity to meet and spend time with some extraordinary people. We spent part of the day at Emmanuel's Place, home to dozens of beautiful children, from babies to high school graduates. Sister Louise is a Catholic nun who has been loving and advocating for children who have lost parents to war, AIDS and other circumstances for the last 20 years. Many of the kids we had an opportunity to meet spoke of her as their second mother, and while you can imagine there would be need for some strict routines in caring for over 100 kids it was immediately apparent that love and being loved shaped the children there.








Many of the kids have spent their whole childhood with Sister Louise, while others have come more recently, escaping SPLA (Sudanese People's Liberation Army) where they had been forced into lives as child soldiers. Regardless of where they have come from, Sister Louise advocates for, and strives to ensure, education and the opportunity for a future, shaped by the dreams and ambitions of the kids she is caring for.








It was very cool to spend a little time with some of the kids, as they proudly showed us their rooms, talked about what they wanted to be when they grew up, or what sport they excelled at (Dana and the kids had the chance to give some of the Soccer balls and skipping ropes provided through the Alex Aitken fundraiser). What struck me most about this place and these kids, is that they were kids, given the opportunity to be kids again... to be loved, to belong and to dream.








Today, Mom & Dad drove Noah & I 56 kilometers in a mere 2 1/2 hours (it is difficult to describe the road conditions, and might be best to say at times we drove on nothing that resembled a road!). Our destination was the town of Najile, where Noah and I spent the day with Solomon, a small plot farmer, who has resiliently established a sustainable farm that feeds his family in a place that is currently suffering from the worst drought the Maasai people can recall in their oral history.








With one 1/2" water line he has cultivated about an acre of corn (for maize flour), beans, cabbage, collards and indigenous fruit such as mango and papaya. After touring their land, Noah and I set to weeding the collard patch with Solomon, his daughter and some neighbor kids curious about the muzungos (Noah and I), pink and sweating under the relentless African sun. Solomon was a farmer to the core, saving seeds, nursing next season's seedlings along, while praying that this years crop would not fail. Nothing is wasted, with weeds going directly to their goats, chicken and cattle, while the livestock' 'fertilizer' goes back into the soil around the hand watered & weeded plants.








Noah and I plied Solomon with many questions around his farming practices, family life, and Maasai culture while we worked. He in turn asked about our life in Canada and we wondered at all that we held in common, despite our very different lives. It was a truly amazing day, in which Noah even learned a little about herding goats... a transferable skill even if we don't have leopards and baboons to contend with at home!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Lately...



Well, we have had some full days.


This week started out with a visit to Nairobi Handicraft Carvers. It it nice to see these places with people 'in the know' and John, a carver the Ten Thousand Villages store buys from, toured us around his shop and others in the coop. Kevin is excited about a cross he is having John carve for him.


On Friday, we decided to visit the Giraffe Orphanage for a more 'touristy' experience. Noah got up close and personal with a giraffe (see picture) and would love to do it again. Anna wanted nothing to do with it, and Mollie ended up throwing the food into the giraffes mouth. They say giraffes saliva has healing properties... here's hoping.


After today's experience, I am just glad to be home. It was a nice day in Najile (a 2 1/2 hour drive on VERY bumpy roads... thank goodness for the SUV) where we were able to celebrate with Joseph and Elizabeth on their wedding day. It started 3 hours late (thankfully we were given a heads up and only had to wait 1 hour). The bride had 24 attendants, the groom nine. The room was packed, and with the choir performances, dancing, preaching (translated into English) and actual wedding, the ceremony lasted 3 hours. I was so proud of the kids, they lasted the whole time... quietly. When it ended at 4pm we had thought we would skip the reception so we could make it home before dark (one big rule in Kenya... try not to be on the roads after dark) but the Maasai culture is very generous and it was obvious not eating would be a huge disappointment to them. We were seated in the grooms mothers house and served our first goat meat. I decided to go at it with both hands and it was pretty good. The Maasai people are so friendly and welcoming, it was a pleasure to eat with them. The only downside (and HUGE stress for me) was the trip home- 1/3rd in the dark. I think it took some years off my life and got through it by burying my face into Kevin's leg. Nothing bad happened and we got home fine but my dad has assured me will try to be in before dark from now on. I will be teased about that for a while.


Again, we are amazed at the generosity and friendliness of the Kenyan people we have met. Our kids continue to be a novelty but they take it in stride, with the occasional 'intervention' by their grandparents.